I've heard a lot of people over the years reference someone's personal stats as a way to weed out the dateable from the undateable..
The first things a woman will state to her friends is his financial status. Where he works, what he drives, where he stays at. While men will mention how fine, beautiful or sexy she dresses.
Those things aforementioned only tells how a person takes care of themselves or what that person has been blessed with through good genetics. It doesn't give an indication as to how well they will take care of you.
The best way to make that assessment is by patiently listening to them and finding out about their past and how they've dealt with others before you.
Find out where their moral compass is. Listen to their ideas, hopes and aspirations. All these will give you an indication of that person character and let you know who that person is under normal circumstances..
This is only half the battle.
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